Sex Coaching

I offer sex coaching for people seeking new ways to experience pleasure and connection, either out of physical necessity, dissatisfaction, or simple curiosity about what else might be possible for you and your body. Drawing on more than 15 years of experience as an executive functioning coach, I help my clients get in touch with what they truly want out of sex and then make practical plans to get it. I’m certified in comprehensive sexual healthcare for people with disabilities by Dr. Mitchell Tepper, the leading expert in spinal cord injuries and sexuality. This freeing and open-ended approach applies not only to wheelchair users and other people with disabilities, but can help anyone who feels stuck in goal-oriented, patriarchal models of sexuality. Loss of any kind—whether of bodily function/sensation, of a relationship, or of libido/attraction—can be an opening: we are forced to look for new ways to engage with our sensuality, rather than acting out of habit or learned behaviors, many of which do not serve a particular individual’s desires in a particular moment. 

I’m a certified yoga teacher who has studied tantra and other mindfulness practices extensively, which I incorporate into my coaching. I’m also a long-time practitioner and student of Internal Family Systems and I have trained in Self-Led Sexuality with Patricia Rich; I draw on this model to help my clients care for all parts of themselves during sexual experiences. Developing a healthy relationship to your own sexuality is an ever-evolving process, which can yield deep insights, spiritual growth, and fulfillment both in and out of the bedroom. Eros is an essential part of our life force, and when we are disconnected from it, we may feel disconnected and blocked in other areas of our lives as well. With compassion, humor, and curiosity, I help my clients get in touch with their full erotic potential—alone and/or with a partner(s)—so that they can feel more alive and more fully themselves in all areas of life. I have been reading, writing, thinking, and talking about the link between embodiment and liberation for the last two decades, and I’m excited to be part of your journey to sexual wholeness and satisfaction. 

I also offer creativity coaching, which can sometimes be done in conjunction with sex coaching, since eros and personal expression are so closely linked.

I offer virtual sessions on a sliding scale: $50, $100, or $150 per hour. I can only accept a limited number of clients at the lowest price tier and give priority to the BIPOC and LGBTQ communities. If $50/hour is prohibitive for you, please reach out to discuss options.